I know I shouldn't worry about it but it does make me mad. I know he's just trying to get out of paying me anything and I knew he would pull this. So why am I upset if I knew it would happen?
And yes, whenever something is coming up he pulls this crap. Ironically our wedding anniversary is coming up. Not that I even remotely think he remembers when that is.
This is just very draining and H believes I should reimburse him for all these expenses. But if he is going to get nasty I will bring up the times he used marital money on OW. The judge has already told us the time for "evening things out" is at the end of the case. Not now. These are not contemptible items. I was never court ordered to not use the credit card or not use the marital account. He is just trying to get me to back down and drop the contempt charges. I know this.
Then why am I so upset? Yeesh!
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"