WH, Your h is going to continue pulling rabbits out of the hat to avoid paying you. Your lawyer has already told you that the charges are stupid, but again, it's got to be cleared up. Marital/joint assets are to be used by both parties, especially when the money is in one account. If he's going tit for tat, what about the times that the account was overdrawn because he took money? Honestly, he's just being a PIA right now and is trying to beat you down to shut you up and make you go away.
Additional birth certificates and social security cards can be ordered from the state and the Social Security Administration. Besides, what does he need them for? If he's going to act like a PIA, make copies and give him the copies and if he wants to complain some more, he can order new ones himself. Plain and simple.
If you were not ordered to separate out accounts at the time you were using the credit card and accounts, then he doesn't have a leg to stand on because you were still living in the marital home and acting like husband and wife, even though he was out there trolling the streets. Quite frankly, he doesn't have a leg to stand on and the judge is going to get sick of him very soon.
In the meantime, leave this in your lawyer's hands and I know you are worrying about it...but there's nothing you can do about it right now. BTW, have you noticed how he always bangs at your door when there's a holiday or special event coming up?
It feels like it will never go away...but it will. Instead of being upset, you need to get angry and take that anger out on the flower bed. Just remember, he's not happy, but very miserable and he doesn't want you to have one day of peace and happiness. Please don't allow him to destroy your peace and happiness, dig deep for more strength and enjoy your life. He is just a blip on the radar.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
