hehe, thanks Wonka, can't say I've been compared to Charlie Brown before I kinda feel like some see me as going from this simpering little wuss that is waiting for his W to throw him some table scraps to the ultra evil villain that steals his W's kids away from their ideal loving home to go with him all the while they are crying to be with their mom.
A gradual transition may be ok if my W will agree with doing any sort of transition to a more equal sharing of time with our kids. My kids have done very well when they were with me for a week at a time over the past few months. I would expect the same now.
I sent my W a message tonight saying I realize my last message was a bit harsh and that I was sorry for springing this on her without a lot of notice. I told her I'd like to talk to her about any questions or concerns she had and that I understand that we both are trying to do everything we can for our kids.
Me-40,W-37 D7, D5, S3 Separated Oct 3/2013 T 11 YRS M 7 YRS