He says I was not supposed to use marital money to pay my cell phone bill and my counselor bill. He said I should have used my own money. But our monies were together at the time. He said that I had late fees on the credit card and that I used the card for non-marital things (like when my car died on the highway because I had no other money). He said I left him holding the bag on two bills that I was supposed to pay. He said I took $500 out of the marital account (???). He said I took the kid's birth certificates and ss cards out of the house "without his permission", etc.

Thing is I was never court ordered to do or not do any of those things. So i am not breaking a specific court order. It's also funny how the amount he tallies is about equal to what he owes me from his bonuses.

So again, he is trying to justify not paying me he bonus by saying I owe him money.

Oh, and I refused to reimburse him directly for lunch accounts and will not reimburse him for D's soccer shoes which he never told me about until After he bought them.

Nothing really but aggravating none the less. I still have to pay my lawyer to defend me from this mess.

WH


AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012
Two kids, one dog
D Final 6/18/14
J marries OW 1/24/15
"No matter where you go, there you are"