"The amount of drama I experience in life is in direct proportion to the degree to which I hallucinate I can control other people, their opinions of me, or the outcome of events. Low control issues = low drama quotient. It's that simple." Jacob Nordby
This is just another blip in the road of growth.
great quote!!
Val, I'm Not sure why this triggered so much for you either, b/c I thought you did want "some" type of r with her as long as you felt safe, and she did, too...
and so for her, maybe, "liking" a picture feels like a small olive branch saying "i do still care...but I need limits" and that might be her limit. Other than blocking her, what the heck can you DO about this?
I like that you don't want to take the energy to block her (even if it may have been wise to do sometime in the past).
I'd hang onto that type of thinking, but that's just my .02
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