Just remembered a convo. with WAW from a week or two ago. We were chatting away. Everything normal. We've been getting along great probably because I have been acting normal, confident, not being needy etc. Anyway, WAW said something along the lines of it was good we are getting along and that it would be good in the future that if we each met someone she'd love it if we could effectively double date. I thought to myself "WTF - as if". But replied calmly and with a smile... "That probably isn't a good idea as each of our partners probably wouldn't feel comfortable". I wonder why she said that? Has she got OM? Is she delusional about her own sitch? I'm really not sure.
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Spend ZERO TIME ON THIS QUESTIONS^^ b/c the fact is, WASs say wacky stuff all the time. They "blurt out" some thought that they put no energy or sensitivity into, and then they are stunned when we "go bonkers" on them (and prove them right for leaving. )
They filter nothing out, and often just "spitball" ideas like this^^ one, or "hey maybe we'll be living in a commune" type of remarks are just tossed out to their kids...!!!
I cannot explain her comment to you. I read nothing into it, except zero for insight into how you would feel hearing it...(I mean, really?)
Sure, it's POSSIBLE she has an OM.
So, what, if anything would that change in your course of action? Nothing, correct?
Okay, so why spend any energy on something that is NOT likely AND NOT going to change your course of action? You still have your work to do.
Btw, I think your answer was close to perfect...
wonder what she'd have thought if you said something like "w, I don't know if You would feel comfortable around my new gf/OW but if you think so, maybe we'll try that someday..."
And if she were to ask you if you had found someone else, you could say "Oh, you mean one OW, specifically?"
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
