I think what strikes me as beautiful with you, J, has to do with how you have put your sons first every step of the way. It's struck me since you started posting. You knew you had been lacking as a dad and you worked hard to put that right.
And, even now, you put your ducks in a row so your sons are protected as much as possible through all this crud. What a beautiful gift to give to them.
It's so refreshing on these boards. My H was more concerned about child support enforcement interfering with his rent than he was when the house almost foreclosed and his daughter would have had no place to live.
God Bless,
Heather
My dad, my H...neither put their children first and it's so good to see you make them your top priority.
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson