living with WAW who hasn't walked yet (4)

[dingo]

Oh and to add another thing - you have absolutely zero influence with the posse and you never will. They will support everything she says no matter how illogical or ridiculous it seems to you. To her, what she's doing makes perfect sense and she will present it that way to them.

If they don't agree with her, she will stop hanging out with them and risk their friendship and none of them will want that. Looking to a WAW's friends to hold her feet to the fire and make her do the right thing is a lost cause.

So the conclusion is: As long as she is against you, they are against you - so who gives a [censored] what they think?

Think about it - are you going to risk losing one of your close friends because they are having a marital crisis and cheating on their spouse?