Thanks so much artsy & Georgiabelle.
After posting I thought about sending and email instead, so thanks for confirming my thinking that would be best.

Georgiabelle your response is perfect!
I can be wordy sometimes, and that is short and to the point smile
Thanks again!


me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope