Thanks so much artsy & Georgiabelle. After posting I thought about sending and email instead, so thanks for confirming my thinking that would be best.
Georgiabelle your response is perfect! I can be wordy sometimes, and that is short and to the point Thanks again!
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope