This, That and The Other

[labug]

My judging is rarely ever overt, it usually takes place in my head but then my reaction to the judgment can come out sideways, what some might call passive/aggressive. I want to get the point across that I know better in subtle "helping" or manipulative ways. It's taken a lot of being aware of my patterns to realize this and let it go.

I know that the less I feel in control of me, the more I attempt to control things outside of me.