My H tells me I am the most pessimistic and glass half empty person he knows. I called it being a realist and planning for the worst.
He asked me why I couldn't just plan for the best and have a backup plan if that didnt work.
Something to think about when trying to change the way you think and/or come across to others. I see how my thoughts could be construed as being a pessimist versus a realist.
Me- 29 H - 36 T - 5y M - 2y D - 11 months BD#1 June 2013 BD#2 H files 10/28/13 Retrouvaille Nov 13 BD #3 H Files 2nd time 4/22/14 Fires L 7 days later. No court dates set Supposedly he's moving out?