My H tells me I am the most pessimistic and glass half empty person he knows. I called it being a realist and planning for the worst.

He asked me why I couldn't just plan for the best and have a backup plan if that didnt work.

Something to think about when trying to change the way you think and/or come across to others. I see how my thoughts could be construed as being a pessimist versus a realist.


Me- 29 H - 36
T - 5y M - 2y
D - 11 months
BD#1 June 2013
BD#2 H files 10/28/13
Retrouvaille Nov 13
BD #3 H Files 2nd time 4/22/14
Fires L 7 days later. No court dates set
Supposedly he's moving out?