I won't give up II

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Heather, I just posted a short novel to you and lost the whole thing! Darn computers.

Thanks for the update on your situation! Your h will figure this out just as mine will one way or another. Unfortunately it will be in their own time. Their selfishness is above and beyond what I can begin to understand with regard to the children.

I have full access to all of our accounts and am still watching closely for any large amounts of money going out. So far, he has kept things under control with finances. The car that he leased was not a wise decision but instead of using "our" money to make the down payment he used the ow's van. He still has to make the payments each month but he has the resources to do so while he is working and says that he can and will break the lease if he needs to. I'm sure he'll take a loss on the ow's car but I'm not sure what else it will involve. The lease doesn't have her name on it either.

If he loses his job I will be just fine. I have several monthly checks coming in that cover all of my living expenses and more. My goal is to preserve our assets by keeping the ow away from everything so that our children won't lose what belongs to them not a gold digging, manipulating B.

Keep taking care of yourself and your kids, Heather. I will get over to your thread and see what's going on with you too.