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uRworthy,
The downer comment was bad sarcasm...sorry.

You are right, getting out of my "funk" will take time. W commented in January about positive changes and how much they meant to her and kids so I kinda been using that as reference to what I was doing, how I felt, etc. What I've found researching is a person will see some massive changes then plateau off while they keep learning/experiencing themselves. Was described similar to losing weight....a person with lots of weight to lose can make small changes with great payback, but then has to work harder at middle until end to finish their final goals. I'm guessing months to years in my case.

Kiddos and I have found out how much fun "chores" are. I quit loading dishes in dishwasher cuz when I wash by hand, kiddos come help out and we get to hang out together. Same with laundry and cooking supper. It brings me self value and I get lots of time with our children W misses out on. Oh well, it's for me and worth every minute!

Oh the bitter comment was me being snarky. Yea, I should have been the guy I'm becoming years ago. Honestly, it hurts me to know this guy would have made her fairytale come true, but instead she'll only remember the bad.

Thanks for the feedback. It's always helpful for me to see y'alls perspective and learn from the experience you have gained in this.