Almost 7month into this and life is starting to slowly get better. Wife said she will Stop affair but to be honest I don't believe a single word from her mouth. Communication with OM has reduced but they still talk and text. She told me it will take time for her to stop cold turkey. To be honest, I don't care. We talk more now, mostly about irrelevant stuff. I guess I'm okay with that. I talked to her about my daughter and not what she doing with OM. W said she already stopped cake eating and not spending time with OM. I don't believe her and probably will not waste my time hopping that will fix us. W said she still need space to process her feeling and other demons in her head. She should be home in three weeks (she's staying with her parent while home) she will be moving to Arkansas in a month after that, I guess to give new OM a shot. She plan on keeping our daughter with her parent for 6month while she get settled with her new job. I told her that will not be a option for me me. "I told her I want my daughter with me and that will be my final answer to that". She claimed I'm not giving her enough time to slowly stopped the affair. I don't care and not studying her anymore. I'm back to work and focusing on my job and daughter. It's hard to erase everything she did. Very difficult your! I honestly don't know what the future holds but glad I came here to get help. I'm still dealing with disappointment, betrayal and all that was lost. I can't believe it took 7month for me to get here. I'm thankful to everyone that gave advice and follow my sitch. Eric, sandi2, lostforward, March1, job, dbmod, D2ndday,georgiabelle. Yes21, unbidden, lost21, planet. Thank you!!! And to everyone I didn't mention or forget, thank you!! To all my friend, husband, wife in same situation, pls keep your head up and keep your focus on you and what's important to you. This does get better with time! I still have a long way to go, but all things are possible With God.
