Dingo - her panties in a plastic bag in her purse beside the hamper in our closet.
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You are totally confusing me, Zew. Just a couple of posts ago, you told us that you've done the "STOP IT -- we both know you're lying to me right now" thing, and told her that you know she's having an affair. Now you say "she has no idea why I've gone dim,"
It's as if when she denies it, she believes that I don't know. Then, if I LRT and minimize communication, she thinks I am deranged because I should be behaving as normal. I would have expected that she might associate my behavior with me knowing about the A. Apparently, that's an expectation I shouldn't have. But since W denied A, the only explanation for Zew not following normal routine must be that he's crazy. One more good reason to leave. I'm trying to understand the logic in that which has no logic I guess.
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Jeezus, you're making this thing complicated
I think it's especially complicated because she lives at home, and it's the perfect setup. And I keep thinking that if she can't deny the A anymore, she might associate Zew's behavior with the A, and understand that Zew is on the way out. But you're right, she doesn't give a crap, except for that bill paying part, and she's digging in deeper and deeper.
It kills me that it seems that my only options are to wait it out, or go nuclear. Can I not try to end the A by exposing it?
Some laundry day soon, she's going to go to get that bag, and it won't be there. It may be the first time that she accepts that I know about the A. Let's assume she doesn't care. If she tells OM, he might care. Maybe not. It would spook me.
Why do I care? Because it might end A. Exposure usually does that, doesn't it? Am I worse off?
Maybe I shouldn't care. I should just be walking my way down the road, regardless.
