FY, It's always nice to hear from you! My h does question some of the decisions that he's made over the past year. He continues to ask me for help and my opinion but I have backed off (unless I see potential financial disaster) and as hard as it is to watch him struggle with the simplest decisions, I know that he has to figure it out all by himself.
Your w seems to be moving along nicely. Patience and more patience FY. You are the prize at the end of her journey and I think she knows that otherwise she wouldn't still be there.
Me:57H:62 M:34T:35 2S,2D (grown nlah) BD:09/2012 visits M ow EA/PA?:10/2012 H moves out 06/2013
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama