Bea, Thanks for stopping by. Over the past week my attorney and I have been working on a list of items that must appear in the document, otherwise it won't be agreed to. He assured me that this agreement will be enforceable if we were to Legally Separate or D in the future.
You are exactly right about the ow not working and expecting a high standard of living. The language that my attorney has proposed is specifically designed to keep her (and anyone else)from getting her/their gold digging hands on any of it.
I took a peek at your latest thread last week and saw that your xh is still at it! It's amazing to me that he can't or won't let go of you. After all of these years one would think that he would be enjoying the life that he chose over his family. My h is so deep in the fog that he is having trouble understanding the simple concept of a legal separation. Yours appears to have gotten past the fog and trying to rewrite your D eight years later. I'm convinced that your xh will never go away completely even if ordered to do so by the courts!
Me:57H:62 M:34T:35 2S,2D (grown nlah) BD:09/2012 visits M ow EA/PA?:10/2012 H moves out 06/2013
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama