W said its over - Said I can't change her mind

[Duds3]

Been a while since I have posted to the boards. I have been reading situations daily. Unfortunately the final papers were received yesterday in the mail. As of April 28, I am officially divorced. (censored)

I have a had a great month on the GAL front. Completed a half marathon, been to a baseball game, and hung out with plenty of friends. Very appreciative for all these opportunities.

Had another sighting of my XW and her friends. Funny thing her friends, who were once our friends, have tried to make attempts to make amends meet with my good friend, who was once my XW's best friend. I feel for my friend who also lost her best friend thru this whole ordeal. My XW accused her of trying to help me figure out what was wrong in our M and not helping her. Another confusing moment of the story.

I was also recently told by a friend her best friend told her husband that it is sad to see my XW go crazy and lose her mind. I could have gone without hearing that comment. One would think it would make you feel better, but it didn't help the situation one bit.

I have met an older lady at the gym who has been helping me deal with my sitch. She has been thru craziness of her own and many deep levels. She was a WAS after 23 years of M. In the short time I have known her she has been a lifesaver of sorts. Truly a blessing I met her.

Still ride the rollercoaster of emotions sometimes but hopefully those will subside at some point.

With summer around the corner, cheers to everyone.