I checked my mail this morning and there was a letter from my car insurance company, forwarded from my old apt.
I was going to throw it out b/c I assumed it would be a notice letting me know my insurance plan needs to be renewed bc this is the last month on my current card.

My job already sent me a notice as my car insurance must be current in order for me to work....

H paid for the last 6 months and I was to take over starting June...so I had been shopping for a new, cheaper, plan but hadn't picked one.

I was going to throw thw letter away with out opening it....as again I thought it was just a reminder...but instead I opened it.

It has a new card thats paid through until December.... $500

I guess H had a good tax refund and wants to be nice?

Im not sure...but it made me a bit emotional.

This is the only tie I still have to him...his name is on the card... im not sure why he went ahead and paid for me to be covered for the rest of the year (he had been paying month to month previously).

I am grateful....but at the same time I dont understand.



*sigh* there hasnt been any contact in some time and I prefer it be that way...but should I find his phone number and send him a text saying thanks?


me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope