Claire-DB is worth it... I'm pretty sure!

[bashy]

Heh Claire. I'm in the same boat. After making a few mistakes at the start by being angry, pursuing etc I've been positive everytime we talk, looking and dressing better than ever, went on a holiday with a friend, got a nice tan.
Thankfully my WAW and I are getting along great now but it seems it will take time if I'm to make a breakthrough. Hopefully she'll see the changes and realise that not only am I still a "great husband and dad" but also someone she has fallen in love with again and is attracted to.
One positive if anything is that I feel good about my changes for ME. I think time will prove the same with you!
Hang in there!!!!