Claire I have no words as I am in the same situation. I feel the exact same way that you do and it is heartbreaking. However at the end of the day no matter what happens you will be able to look at yourself and say you gave it your all. It [censored] and it's not fair but I believe in karma and everything happens for a reason. If this in fact doesn't work out for you (which I hope it does) do not let him take away the positive changes you've made for yourself. I wish you the best
