HI. I understand - but I guess, you know, for 7 full years, it wasn't a long distant relationship. We lived together for 7 years straight and the 10 months of LDR that occurred immediately before the BD was simply out of necessity.
I guess the reason I find it hard to "buy" this whole thing is because he literally moved across the world for me 4 days before he BD'd. And while many skeptics would probably question whether he actually did move, trust me, he moved. There are so many loose ends you have to tie up when you're moving and they were all tied. He's still undoing those knots.
It's true, I am able to detach easier than most, but I guess that's not 100% what I want. I have gotten my own apartment since the BD and I am making the most of this new life, but it would be nice if he'd join me in it. I guess I just feel like he showed more signs of a MLC than anything else.. it isn't as simple as "We're over" etc so I feel like hopefully he'll do a 180 of his own.
