I guess since I feel the right thing to do is to tell her my plans up front then I might as well not worry about how she may or may not react.
Remember the old army helmet discussion we had before she was going to be served with D papers? I think I still will plan to put the helmet on after I send her the message.
Me-40,W-37 D7, D5, S3 Separated Oct 3/2013 T 11 YRS M 7 YRS