Maybe this is a better place for me

[Bunches]

mmayre, I can understand what you are saying. I think the imbalance of people who are surviving after D and those managing to prevent divorce is just the statistical result. Most relationships that come to this point don't work it out. I think the whole point of DB though is to make sure you do the work to be okay even if the WAS is unwilling to change directions. I'm sure I'm not telling you anything you don't know, but I don't know there is a place you can go and find mostly couples that worked through it all and got back on track. Anywhere you will find the mix and the larger portion will be those that could not do it.