Thanks all, My BD was also 2/14. I'm still in a daze sometimes. It's very difficult and emotionally I run the tracks from fine, to sad, to despondent, to angry, heartbroken, lost, confused. My h thinks I should be just fine with it all and we should be friends. Right. How does that work? He's been from being jealous and couldn't leave me alone, to hating me, to pretending concern, and now he's playing the I'm going to make sure you are taken care of, but who knows how long that will last. I try to just ignore it all. He lies about the dumbest stuff and his lies are all so very bad. I've learned to ignore it. He called me today to tell me about some finances and said he didn't tell me about them last night when he brought our d home because I looked mad. LOL I almost lost it on the phone because d had told me last night that she almost cracked up at the look on his face when he came in because the house was spotless and I was in such a good mood. She even high fived me after he left. When I told her he thought I was mad she said he's so full of it. He also told me our d asked him not to come in because it just makes me upset and then I cry. What a load. I'm looking forward to learning how to get on with my life. I don't want it to be without him, but he's given me no choice so learn I will do. From what I've read so far these last few months most of them don't return. I'm assuming that's a fair assessment? If so, the deck is stacked against me so I need to learn quickly. Thanks for your help.
