Starsky, I was just reading some of your history and had a question. You managed to make a big difference with confrontation. You don't think it would have had the same effect though if your W had already left and was pushing D do you? Of course, my W has decided she doesn't want to save the M and has already agreed to have my S live with me as long as she gets to see him often. I don't think confrontation could work for me.
M: 43 W: 43 Married 6 yrs. T: 7 yrs. Son 20, 18, 17, 15 yrs. (w/ Autism), 12, 10