I can't help but think she will threaten to withhold them from me.
"I can't help BUT" implies you have no control over your emotions. You are giving yourself an excuse to continue to live in fear. IMO, because is it what you are used to.
You can help it!
Send her the email with your proposed schedule and then wait to see what she says. Keep thinking negative thoughts..and that is what you will end up with.
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If she does all I can do is go to court and get the interim custody order.
I may have missed it in your thread....why do you NOT have some temporary orders in place already?
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She may do the same once I tell her my plans.
Mind reading.
And....
May....
I may chit orange unicorns tomorrow.
It may snow tomorrow.
My XW may call me and apologize for being a PITA tomorrow.
Mach may hit the powerball tomorrow
Drew may have a sex change operation
Can you control any of the above?
If not, then why the F*ck do you continue to worry about it. One day at a time. Live in the moment!
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If I do spend the week with my kids then I may be back down that way on the weekend of the 19th.
Cool. Know where the Bass Pro Shop is?
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
