What feels wrong inside? Magic, look within and I know you can figure this out. Think about it, when you don't appear to get the reactions that you want or see some progress w/your SO, what do you do? Go back to your earlier posting...you were thinking of dating sites. Now, the question that comes to mind is this...are you truly ready to date or were you thinking of doing this and then planning a way to tell him that you were doing it? Sometimes we do things in the heat of the moment, hoping against hope, that those actions will make the other person to hurry up and play catch up. Magic, it doesn't work that way. We each move at our own pace and you can't make him move any faster. So, what are you going to do? Are you going to embrace being single and move forward and leave the door ajar or do you actually want to sit in one spot and continue to talk about your issues day in and day out? Do you want to live your life to the fullest and enjoy it or stay stagnant and wait him out and possibly he might want to make a commitment? Life is a gamble each and every day of our lives, but you hold the key to your own happiness.
We have all provided you with the tools and yes, the directions have been all laid out for you in the responses to your postings. Now, it's up to you to determine which routes you are planning to make on your journey. We can't make those decisions for you...only you can and that's where you have a problem...making decisions and living w/the consequences whether they are positive or negative. Your fear of being wrong is holding you back. Let it go, take a chance on life and trust yourself for a change.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
