Thanks for the response. I am guessing getting ow and affair out of my mind is going to take time. Is there any words of wisdom for what worked for you. It is so hard when it is in front of my face the whole time.
I am not sure if I can forgive the affair. I have never been put in this situation. I however am willing to try, to see if I can. I am not sure if I will be given the opportunity. H seems dead set on divorcing me. It makes no sense why he would wait until his crap is done.
I will continue to gal. H seems to be having hard time with loss of control on this. There has been a lit of paranoia and panic ob his part when we are out. It is very frustrating. I feel like I have to have permission to go pee..ugh
