He's the confused one...

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like kids themselves and they are good at repeating themselves over and over again. Is his memory still full of holes or has it gotten better?

Thanks job for your insight as always. H is still re-writing history,....so full of holes? IDK.

I will admit that it is easier to see people (especially men) for who they are right from jump. It makes me proud knowing that I won't get trapped by someone who is no good for me.

I've been taking my time and "dating". Don't like the prospects that I've encountered so far, but have made a couple of good friends. One guy (who I am still currently "dating") swooned over me since day one, but I've told him I am in no hurry (and quite honestly don't have the time) for a relationship. Once he stepped back and "detached" from me, he has shown signs of gratefulness of going at a turtle's pace. He too went through his own share of a bad ending marriage, and realizes that he needs to work on himself too. So we are at best companions.