4th Down And Getting A Little Anxious

[BklynMom]

I completely agree with you regarding not incicating the text pics and funny stories about the kids.

Not that you aren't willing to do that but if he is not asking...

I also think it is part of their journey. They are in such denial that they wanted to leave their spouse but in many cases, mine for sure, they also want to leave their responsibilities as a parent.

It is no coincindence that they dont ask/want texts and pictures - it reminds them what they have done and what they are missing out out on.

My exH does the minimal amount with the kids. He doesn't see it that way but one day he may...

Every time the kids spend time with him - they are fighting for your marriage.

And boy - I wish I had your self esteem 3 years ago but I have it now and I agree I am happy being 40, having a career, having my kids - I like me as do many other peeps. I am not interested in starting all over again. Nor am I interested in hanging out with 20 yr olds