Still trying to save my family - part 11

[Scorp7]

I'm sure she will ask if the kids will be in school, where will they be, who will be watching them etc.

If she ask basic questions...why would not respond to them?

I was over analysing (a hobby of mine I really need to ditch) the first message I send. Tell her all the info upfront so she knows how it will go without her potentially flying off the handle and making assumptions. My W and I have both been big time guilty of making lots of assumptions in the past 7 months.