Cool, I really appreciate the feedback. It feels like the right thing to do to tell my W beforehand about the coming week.

3BM, I agree, if I don't tell my W upfront and then spring it on her I will be doing a mini version of what she did 7 months ago.

Do you think I should tell her a bit more than just pick up on this date and drop off on that date? I'm sure she will ask if the kids will be in school, where will they be, who will be watching them etc.


Me-40,W-37
D7, D5, S3
Separated Oct 3/2013
T 11 YRS
M 7 YRS