BRNR, It's quite normal to view some of the mlcers actions as funny. Once you've detached and begun to move on w/your life, you begin to see clearly how they interact w/you, the children and others, i.e., like kids themselves and they are good at repeating themselves over and over again. Is his memory still full of holes or has it gotten better?
As you continue on w/your own journey, you'll be able to recognize better the type of people you encounter, such as you did w/your male friend. Yes, you detached quite well from him and if he did show some narcissistic tendencies, you are wise to let him go.
You have every right to feel those warm and fuzzy feelings...you've worked hard to get to where you are today.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
