Magic, You both have changed over the last year or so and nothing remains the same. We each tend to view life differently as we age and maybe he's thinking about where he's been, where he's at and where he's going and still wants to explore being w/you as well. Life changes and so do we and you have to find a way to accept the changes taking place w/both of you.
Do you want to accept a few of the invitations for coffee? Wouldn't that be doing something different? Wouldn't you have coffee w/a friend?
I can't tell you have to stop your knee jerk reactions...this is something you have to figure out on your own. As I stated previously, I'm not here to offer advice, suggestions or guidance...I'm here to cheer you on and make you think about what you need to do.
Magic, this is your journey and you are the only one that figure out how you want that journey to take place. You are the only one that can decide what you need to do and when.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
