Originally Posted By: Breakdown
Careful. The problem with your response is that it opens a dialogue....he will respond, and then the back and forth may begin. Then he says the right things (note, "says", not "does"), and the next thing you know, your plate is spinning.

My suggestion would be to leave the rest alone regardless what he says at this point....keep it to "bills and boys."


Yeh I understand that, I'm not going to reply again I just wanted to make my position clear - he's been emailing/texting me several times daily & i've never replied so he clearly doesn't mind talking to himself anyway lol wink he isnt giving up i'll give him that!

He knows what he wanted to know now so there is no need for further communication unless its something important relating to the kids.

My plate is staying on solid ground & not jumping onto the roller coaster that is his life!


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