You've created this situation H, this is the reality of your choices - you ended your marriage, your having an affair & you've destroyed your family. This is what YOU wanted?!
You've made it impossible for me to have any kind of contact with you - if that makes your life difficult then thats something you'll have to deal with because there is no way I will allow you to treat me the way that you have been & disrespect me like you have.
And then just answered his questions about the kids etc and updated him on a few things coming up for them.
Divorce Final: Oct 2014
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