I am really not sure labug - and trying not to mind read.
W said that she wanted to go at 8a and we ended up not going until the evening Mass at 6p. I guess that is why but maybe there is something that I am missing???
The problem I have with the situation is that she often says she wants to go @8a and then if the boys balk or we don't get ready in time we just end up going later.
There is no consistency and she did not wake anyone up to get things going so they could be ready. At least not that I know of.
Perhaps she was expecting me to do that but didn't state that? Or maybe expecting them to set their own alarms and get ready but not letting them know that?
I thought that I had done something nice (not with any expectation though) by taking the dog out and staying out of her way but maybe not.
Is there something you are seeing from a different perspective?
Me-48,W-51 M-22,T-24 S- 18,16,9 Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork