Go with your friend if you want to celebrate with him. Don't let your actions have an ulterior motive.

I find that being honest in word and deed works for me. It's one of my values.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss