I am good Bug, thanks. It did not set me back and I hope she is okay and that I did not hurt her feelings. I however did not like the snide comments about my D and time I spend with her. We only dated 2 months, we talked about it several times and it continued, so I decided to end it. I am confident that I acted with dignity and honor towards her.
I am learning what I want and like, after 23 years of marriage it was nice to see a different style of personality. Some things I liked and some things i did not.
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.
If we state our needs with honesty and kindness, either the OP can accept that or not. Who knows what they're bringing to the table that guides their reaction/response.
It's my belief, that many of us got to the place we were in our R because of a lack of honesty about our true needs in a R. We so wanted to BE in a R that almost anything was acceptable.
Until it wasn't.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
