Hi Tears, I'm so sorry you're here. Cadet will post homework for you to read shortly - do the homework! It's one of the things that has helped most of us through this, educating ourselves on what's going on and then accepting that it isn't our fault (the LBS...left behind spouse). You have come to a good place and I would suggest reading everything you can here, then also post and the vets will offer guidance and we'll all offer support. You're not alone.
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs
