Spoue tried I didn't, now opposite #2

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My first husband was a very angry man, he came from a very angry family. He was the meak one, but boy he made all kinds of threats.

When I left he threatened and made threats to others for years, about 5 or more. He was offered all the help before I left and after. I offered to help even after I was done, I went and saw his shrink for about 4 years in all sometimes weekly sometimes monthly so he would how to help and what was going on. The one thing missing in all that tho was him, he never wanted to stand up and face things. He gave up on life before our son was born, pretty much allowed circumstances to define him. The way his life has gone, was his choice. I didn't make great choices either, but it was leave or be dragged down.

The hardest bit will be starting, I promise you. If you start others will offer to help along the way. Simple.