It got ugly last night. He keeps telling me we can "hash this out without involving Ls because its cheaper." So we came to an agreement of sorts. Temp orders hearing is tomorrow. Right now, I am asking for no overnights since my kiddo is still breastfeeding and because he's clueless as a dad. With some more focus and experi3nce, plus the ability of my kiddo to talk, I would be more at ease. Its things like wanting to take her swimming the day after being diagnosed with an ear infection, giving her tylenol for constipation, feeding her animal crqfkers as a meal when I forgot to write down what to feed her for lunch etc.
The issue is - his attorney tells him overnights are not an issue and hes "definitely" going to get them. <sigh.>
He called me after meeting with her and said they were going for overnights and hes keeping his L. This after telling me the complete opposite hours earlier. He also said he may or may jot give me money for support this Friday even if the judge orders it. I told him we had nothing to discuss then and hung up. I took qn advance off the joint cc and maxed it out so I had money to pay the sitter, utilities etc. He called me about an hour later raging that I had stolen "his" money off of "his credit card."
I think this is going to get ugly. Im not sure I am willing to fight after yesterday. I am emotionally worn down. Tomorrow after the hearing may be worse.
Me- 29 H - 36 T - 5y M - 2y D - 11 months BD#1 June 2013 BD#2 H files 10/28/13 Retrouvaille Nov 13 BD #3 H Files 2nd time 4/22/14 Fires L 7 days later. No court dates set Supposedly he's moving out?
