My last thread is here:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2445832&page=1

Mother's Day is this Sunday and I'm somewhat torn about what to do. I understand that any gift that I have too much input into will likely be taken poorly so I've asked the kids what they want to do. The problem is my son doesn't seem to care about it and my daughter keeps coming up with painting a card for her and nothing else. I could quite easily leave it and avoid any dramas. I feel pretty strongly that the kids should celebrate it and that I should be setting an example for them. If I don't do anything, the kids will have some things from school and daycare and our babysitter also has some ideas.

Does anyone have any thoughts on this?


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014