I know - KNOW - the ow thing is difficult to deal with, but it is important that you put her out of your mind. Don't give her the satisfaction of taking up your thoughts and energy - these are better spent on yourself and your children.
Maybe putting forgiveness this way... Is the affair a deal breaker for you? I'm not saying you have to forgive your h tomorrow, but do you think it may be possible in the future? Just something to think about.
Other people can chime in here, but I would take it easy with the truth darts. I don't think your h is anywhere near a place where they may sink in or have an effect. I'm not saying to tiptoe around and walk on eggshells - but don't look for opportunities for these truth darts. You may be just wasting your time at this point, plus adding fuel to his fire.
Keep GALing regardless of what he says or does. He may be angry for quite a while, so keep focusing on you and your girls. Let him be miserable in his own little MLC world
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."
