So many similarities right now crimson. I'm a non eater during times of stress too. I lost about 30 lbs the first time my ex left. I'm a small guy too.
I'm interested in seeing some responses to your question about how to "be" around your ex. Right now I'm being as calm and neutral as I possibly can. Problem is, my ex seems to be "pursuing". I don't know if it's actually pursuing but she's sending me pic messages of things she's bought for s3 and get this.... I got a text today while at work with a file attached. It was her singing lullabies to our son from a couple nights ago. She knows I love her singing voice. Wtf!!
Anyway, I'm following your lead and trying to be as dark as I can. But it gets extra confusing when they pursue a bit.
Question for ya, how has your ex been lately with you? Friendly? Cold? Indifferent? Non existent?
Me-35 Com law-28 S-3 T-6 yrs w/14 mnth bu 1st bu- 2/2012 Rec-4/2013 2nd bu-10/2013 IC-2 yrs(anger issues) MC- 5 mnths-fail OM~1/1/14 OM dumped 6/4/14 New OM ~10/4/14
