Yes, he even transferred out of her area after he left.
I have identified what I am responsible for and am working on those things. At least those thinks I think have been problematic as h has said nothing other than he has no input with our d (which is not true) and I'm controlling, yes, because he works many hours and someone has to keep up the house and chores and school stuff after work. That fell to me and I would ask for his input on things but he wouldn't give any. But I've been working on the controlling part anyway because there's always room for improvement. They did not put him on any medications after the stroke. But I have learned that they now believe that mini strokes can cause personality changes where they once believed that wasn't true. But I could find nothing on whether these are permanent or not, but that if this occurred they would need help. Some of these changes, irritable behavior, being nasty to family, kind of checking out slowly was before the stroke. I chalked it up to stress and being tired, but I shouldn't have. Although those things were certainly a contributing factor I'm sure. But I think it was coming on since the year before his mom died. His best friend for the last 2 years is 21 years old and that friendship has become even closer. It's very weird. H took d15 out for dinner tonight and she said he was texting with him all the way home. Even told her his buddy said to say hi to her and she doesn't even know the guy. Maybe it's not o/w? LOL
