I had IC today. He is really pushing me to give up and decide to move on without H. Aside from that, he is really trying to get me to have a R talk with H. I keep telling him no. I'm not ready to give up and I'm not forcing a conversation that is inevitably not going to end well.
I really like my IC- he's SBT, and his point is, this "avoiding cycle" H and I are in is not working so so done has to break it.
Regardless, I'm not throwing in the towel on my M. H has been virtually silent for 3 weeks. I'm just doing my thing, but my IC says I'm still "stuck" and there's no way to not be stuck as long as H is MIA. I don't feel stuck. I've been sad lately, but it doesn't overtake my life.
What are my options here? Stop IC, get another IC, tell IC to get off the negative train or he's fired??????
What do I do?
Me: 39 H: 45 Second marriage for both H left 12/2013 M:4 T:5.5
