Hey Julie it sure is..anger and gratitude I found this article about detachment onthe Livestrong website..it described relationships .ike ours as toxic.. and said it is up to us to fix it..it was only yezterday but it struck such a chord. I don't want a toxic relationship with anyone.. yuck.. My H has no clue.. he thinks he has all the answers. and I am tried of , listening to his negativity.. I am sure I will cycle around to being sad again but not for long.. I really am a fine person. He is the one with his reputation destroyed.. Not me.. I am glad we don't have children together. He would have been a horrible, cold distant father. But he recognised that himself So sad man, confused man, fancy thinking he will organise a divorce and THEN talk about the relationship
I feel much stronger, less dependent.. Luke mentioned detaching.. it was an excellent suggestion. ? hope things improve.. we have to do it ourselves. Those useless men we are married to certainly won't be doing anything anytime soon.. Gratitude fastest time for a kilometre ever..and it was a 10 k run..
