Thanks for the reply. I am trying to deal with the psych issues. Right now alll I can do is stand back as there is no realization of issues. Unfortunately IC was quit before he could be helped.
Thanks for the clarification on goal setting based on db. It is pretty hard to do when things are crumbling. I never thought of it as working on myself first, even though everyone has been saying gal. It is very hard to get past ea and pa. H does not admit it is happening. Is it possible to forgive it if it still is happening and there is no admitting from h it is happening?
I had stopped checking cell phone records, but started checking again but it has been mine that I have been checking. I had to reload address book. The public records was done by friend on her own who let me know
